Thursday, September 3, 2015

Thrifty Thursday: Another visit to the downtown Salvation Army store

I've been looking through my old posts and stats and my top-viewed blog post of all time is the one about the downtown Minneapolis Salvation Army thrift store.  So I took another trip there the other day to see if it was still the Island of Misfit Target Goodies that is the Twin Cities worst-kept secret.

The storefront looks just as crappy as ever.  I like to think this is a repellent for the first-timers who drive up and think,"This can't be the place."

So the first thing I noticed, when I got into the "as-is" basement is the giant fans.  This place is notorious for it's year-round hot, stifling basement, and it looks like they're really trying to increase the air circulation.  

There's even this...what is this?  It blows your hair back, and your skirt up from about 10 feet away.

Anyway, on with the shopping.

It's the time of year for Halloween costumes and the selection here is actually pretty good.  Every Disney princess was represented, as well as a bunch of action heroes, plush animals, and pirates.  The prices seemed to be about 50% off of what you'd pay at Target, and these are all brand new, unworn costumes.  I did see a few flaws or missing pieces, so it's important to inspect before buying.  

So much Halloween decor, if that's your thing.

I saw more craft items than I've seen here in the past.  Here's a Cricut Mini for $60.  I have no idea what you do with a Cricut, but I know scrapbookers are crazy about these things.

As the Back To School stuff starts to get cleared out of Target stores, a lot of it gets dumped here.  If you're looking for notebooks, planners, organizers, right now is a good time to shop the Salvation Army store. 

I took a look in the back room where the new furniture is.  I always see a lot I like here because it tends to be small, modern pieces.  Sometimes it's samples from Nate Berkus and Threshold, or any of the other designer brands Target carries.  This console table was $60, though.  I'm not sure that qualifies as a spectacular deal.

The kitchen appliance area is amazing as always.  If you're looking for a Crock-pot, electric mixer, coffee maker, or blender, you can pick one up here for much less than at the store.  Just make sure you test it before you buy it because there are no returns.

I saw an entire shelf of bread machines for $15, which was tempting even though I don't mind making homemade bread the old-fashioned way.

The home decor aisles were more bare than I've seen them in the past, but I noticed a few nice pieces.  Again, this is where you can find samples of the brands Target collaborates with, sometimes things that haven't even made it to the stores yet.

 The thing that intrigued me the most was this unmarked mid-century light fixture.  I'm still thinking about it, but probably won't go back for it because the last thing my house needs is another project. This is going to be an great score for a lucky someone.

You notice I didn't take pictures of any clothes this time.  One thing I've noticed over the years is that there will be a ton of things in some sizes, but not others, and the prices aren't really any better than you would find on the clearance rack at Target.  I still think this is a great place for shopping for baby and toddler clothes, but the selection for older kids and adults is pretty lame.

Monday, August 31, 2015

Monday Morning Roundup 8.31.15

Hey!  It's Monday morning and both my kids are at school!  This means I can get back to my blog, among many other things I couldn't make time for all summer.

Instead of a typical First Day of School picture, the kids wanted to show off their new backpacks.

Here's a few good links I found.

This seems right on to me: The Commandments of Going Out to Restaurants With Kids  We actually don't go to many restaurants with our kids because of the hassle of food allergies, and when we do go somewhere it's pizza or Subway.  I'm hoping some day we will be putting these into practice.

You can't be stressed out while listening to the Cat Purr Generator.

I'm excited to start Apartment Therapy's Fall Closet Cure.  I've followed some of their other home improvement cures before, and I have to say they really break down a big project into doable steps.

Meal Templates for weeknight dinners.  Yesssss.  We already do a pizza night once a week, but here's more inspiration.

Does your family have its own code names for the various Lego pieces?  This made me laugh.

I'm so excited to sit down and write some some real blog posts now. Stay tuned!

Monday, June 22, 2015

The Storm and the Aftermath

It's been a crappy few months.  So many weird/dumb things have happened to me and my family that I've been thrown off my routine of blogging or doing anything else creative.  The highlights include The Mister getting in a car accident with a city bus, Boo's school principal calling me to say he had a severe bloody nose and an ambulance was on its way, me locking myself and Punky out of the house in our rush to meet said ambulance and having to call a cab to drive us to the school, looking for a new house, thinking we had found the right house, not getting the house, giving up the house hunt (for now), and, just when we thought we couldn't take anymore bad luck, our beautiful Siamese cat, my baby, got sick and died.  Now sprinkle in some bad news from the kids' dentist, a pile-up of medical bills, me having some recurring GI issues, our wi-fi repeatedly going down, my laptop crashing on a daily basis, and an accidental tossing-out of a bag of important papers.  

None of those things would have been catastrophic on their own, but coming at us at a fast pace like they did, made me nearly lose it.  I didn't know how I could be a functional wife and parent when I felt like I couldn't keep it together myself.  I could picture the figurative black cloud over my head, following me everywhere I went.  But like all storms, this eventually passed. I don't know how my family got through it, but I do know I cried in front of a lot of people and I didn't even care.  I let people know I needed support.  I tried to model for the kids some constructive ways to grieve our pet and let them know we can talk openly about death and feelings even though I'm not sure I always have the right answer.   I was humbled, and that was an interesting, uncomfortable, frustrating experience.

In the midst of things, I clung to anything that made me feel better.  I watched every episode of Parks and Rec and then moved on to The Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt because I needed something to laugh at. I celebrated with my kids every time a teacher said something good about either one of them, which happened a lot.  I picked up some good books to read, and purged a lot of books from my shelf that I realized I was never going to read.  I even started a new job, something that felt risky in a time of emotional crisis, but it turned out to be the exact thing I needed because it's both challenging and rewarding.
I also got a huge reality check when someone who lives near me told me about a woman, an immigrant and mother of several children, she frequently sees going through the neighborhood trash cans for food.  I mean, this is South Minneapolis, where people drink craft beer and grow heirloom tomatoes and give money to public radio and run marathons, and we still have neighbors, hiding in the shadows, who are happy to get their hands on some past-expiration lettuce that was touching other garbage.  I haven't come across this woman myself, and I don't know her story, but knowing she's out there makes me appreciate how fortunate I am.  A lot of bad stuff can (and did) happen to my family but at least we always have shelter, food, and a support network.

There's a well-known quote by Regina Brett: "If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back."  It's true.  Losing a pet we had loved as part of our family was devastating, but I'm sure it's nothing like having no food on the dinner table day after day.  And even at some point during our string of bad luck, when I was moaning, "when is this all going to end?" the possibility was always out there, somewhere on the horizon, that it would end and things would go back to normal, though minus one Siamese.

I guess this kind of stuff happens to people regularly.  It's part of being an adult, and those who don't have to deal with periods of loss and frustration once in a while are just darn lucky.  Some people have much worse to contend with.  And others choose not to deal with it at all and find ways to temporarily escape the responsibilities life throws at them.  I feel a little bruised, but I toughed it out and I'm ready to move on.  Whew.

Anyway, I hope this wasn't too ramble-y.  I've had time to think about what kinds of things I want to write about in the near future, and I think I'd like to put more focus on self-care and coping skills during times of stress.  I'm excited to put a little more time into researching this topic and sharing what I find out.  So please stay tuned, and I promise I'll try not to step away for too long this time.

Thursday, April 23, 2015

Thrifty Thursday: The Dry Spell

Hi friends!  It's been a long time since I've done a Thrifty Thursday post, and the reason is that I'm not finding much of anything lately.  It's not for lack of trying.  I probably make one or two thrift store visits a week during my kid-free errand excursions, but I keep coming up empty-handed.  It's getting really frustrating!  But finally, I got a very small haul at Arc's Value Village the other day.

First, I stopped in the kids' book section.  To my delight, some wonderful staff or volunteer had organized the series books so I didn't have to go digging for Magic Treehouse books for the kids.  I grabbed all the ones we don't have yet.  We're reading them out of order, and it's the kind of series where that doesn't matter very much.

I found a few cute things for Punky that looked like they were in brand new condition: a dress and swimsuit she can wear this summer, and a long-sleeved shirt for next winter.  

Then I dug and dug through the womens clothes, not finding anything good.  I went over to the New Arrivals area, where I sometimes find the best things, and I saw an intriguing pattern sticking out.  It was a t-shirt with a Marc Jacobs label.  Also, the label said XS. So I moved on.  But then I came back and looked some more.  It was cropped, and it was also cut big, so it would be worn very loose on a size XS person.  So I decided to take it home with me.  I rationalized that either it would fit me and I could figure out a way to style it, or it wouldn't fit me and I could use the fabric to make something else.

Somewhere Marc Jacobs is crying, "No!  Only urban, dirty-haired waifs who look like they live in garbage cans but actually have lots of money get to wear my clothes." 

I was still desperate to find something usable for myself so I ended up buying a Max Studio dress.  I think I bought it because it had an interesting retro pattern, but it didn't fit well, and it was in a synthetic fabric I don't enjoy wearing.  I had buyers remorse within 5 minutes of leaving the store.  I went home and tried it on again and tried to convince myself I would wear it, but I finally had to admit that it was a mistake.  Then came the dilemma of trying to return it or just tossing it in my donation bin.  Since I was headed back in that direction to pick up Punky from preschool anyway, I decided to take it back to Arc.  I don't think I've EVER tried to return something to a thrift store before.  Luckily this one has a limited return policy for rewards member and the money gets credited to your account.

I'm glad it went back.  With summer coming, I don't want this drab thing anyway.  

Magic Treehouse books $.79 x 6
Girls Cherokee tank dress 3.99
Girls Land's End top 3.99
Girls Old Navy swimsuit 4.99
Marc Jacob's top 6.99
(Max Studio dress that I didn't keep 12.99)

I had a 25% off coupon because I had donated a carload of stuff prior to going into the store.

Total 18.63

Now I have a little credit sitting there for next time I shop, which probably won't be for awhile, in hopes that the store will be restocked in the meantime.  Every once in a while I run into a dry spell like this.  When people tell me I'm really good at thrifting and finding amazing deals, I emphasize that it's mostly luck.  If I visit four thrift stores over a two week period, maybe I'll find something useful at one or two of them.  And the truly exciting finds, like Marc Jacobs tops, Tory Burch shoes, and Marimekko bags, only pop up once in a blue moon.  The point is, those things DO pop up, and you won't find them unless you keep looking. 

Thursday, February 5, 2015

Thrifty Thursday: Another Fun Appointment with Arc Value Village's Personal Shopper

I scored another hard-to-get appointment with the personal shopper at Arc Value Village in Richfield the other week.  It was a slower than usual day and there wasn't a lot to choose from this time, although I got some solid pieces I could use.  

The first thing my eye landed on, when I entered the dressing room, was this pair of Frye wedges.  I was so excited.  I do not feel comfortable on higher heels, but I can usually walk in wedges, and I love anything by Frye.  

I tried them on, and discovered that they were too big for me.  Not just roomy, but floppy.  My heels completely lifted out of the backs when I tried to walk.  Boo!

I stood around and admired them for a little while anyway.

Then, I tried on this new-with-tags Narcisco Rodriguez dress and it was the WORST.  
I later looked it up and found a picture of Emma Roberts wearing the same dress.  As you can see, it's stunning on on someone with a stick-thin frame.  So this one was an immediate "no" for me.

Then I tried on a really promising outfit.  I can't remember what the dress was, but the cardigan was Banana Republic.  It looked good from the front.  But the dress had some weird ruching on the sides of the skirt that looked like the lining was caught on the inside.  I kept trying to pull it down until I realized it was intentional.  It was not a good look, or a good feeling.  I made up my mind to keep this pretty green sweater, anyway, until I noticed one of the shoulder seams was coming apart.  So another strike out.

One outfit I took home was this Vince Camuto dress with a Land's End cardigan.  I had put in my original shopping profile that I love yellow, and I think it works well with the navy stripes.  The sad thing is that after wearing the dress once, one of the bottom seams came undone in the washer and now there's a section hanging.  It's something I can fix, fortunately, but I'm concerned about the cheap construction of this dress.

There was also this Banana Republic cardigan I really like the shape of.  I pointed out it had a couple small snags, and was able to get the price reduced.  

Then I got these nice layering tanks.  Kind of boring, but I can totally use them.  I usually keep my eye out for fancy sweaters or dresses and I forget you can find the basic stuff at thrift stores, too.  

So here's my tiny little haul for the day:

Banana Republic cardigan 7.99- 50% off for snag
Vince Camuto striped dress 10.99
Land's End cardigan 6.99
Talbot's black tank 3.99
J. Jill tank 3.99

I wish there had been more, and I scoured the store myself after my personal shopper appointment to come up empty-handed.  What you find at a thrift store, especially a good one with fast turnover, might depend on that day's donations.

Anyway, it's always so nice to stand in a dressing room and have someone else do the running around, bringing you things to try.  So even though I didn't come home with a lot, it was a fun experience. 

Monday, February 2, 2015

Monday Morning Roundup 2.2.15

Happy Monday!  I am so glad to start a new week after being home with sick kiddos most of last week.  They weren't really feeling all that sick, but sick enough to stay out of school with their constantly dripping noses.

I convinced Punky that some homemade chicken noodle soup would make her feel better.  I think it did, or at least the fun of slurping noodles took her mind off her sinuses for a while.  

Here are a few good links:

From Buzzfeed: 19 Perfectly Emotional "Parenthood" Moments.  I had forgotten about some of these! Man, I'm going to miss that show, but I'll enjoy re-watching it on Netflix.

I attended my first-ever book club meeting last Friday, and felt like I've really fallen behind in my book-reading.  Then I found, from Modern Mrs. Darcy, The 2015 Reading Challenge.  It's totally do-able, even if you've gotten off to a slow start this year.

Racked shows us every piece from Ava & Viv, Target's upcoming plus-size line.  I'm hearing a lot of buzz that this will somehow be different than other plus-size brands, and I'm not sure I see it.  I mean, can anyone wear those jumpsuits?  But because real women were consulted in the pieces Target chose, I do want to see them in person when they hit the stores later this month.

If you are thinking about buying a fitness tracker, you can rent before you buy from this service.  I got a Jawbone UP for Christmas and I love it, but I deliberated between that and a FitBit for a long time.  (Groupon had a deal for the Jawbone, so that's ultimately why I chose it).

Portraits of Mothers Who Have Been Given Makeovers by Their 3 to 5-Year-Old Daughters.  Having been given many a kid makeover myself, this is pretty accurate.  I just wish we could see some outfits as well.

Have a great week!

Thursday, January 15, 2015

Thrifty Thursday: Adding to the Stash

One trick of thrifting is riding the fine line between only buying things you need, and buying things ahead so you'll have them when you need them.  I do buy ahead for both kids when I find things I know they'll use in the next season or two.  I limit myself to one bin for each kid and another for shoes and boots.  I also go through them regularly to make sure I know what I have on hand, and clean out anything I don't think we'll use.

I went to Goodwill and found some cute things for Punky that won't work for her this winter, but I can stash them away for summer or another year.

A fun little Gap dress.

This adorable top from Papo d'Anjo, a brand I had never heard of before.  It's a high-end kids line named after a traditional Portugese egg yolk dessert, that I kind of want to try now.

A Naartjie sundress, that I'm not crazy about, but I think Punky will love to wear on a hot summer day.  I just found out that Naartjie went out of business, so maybe I'm not the only one who wasn't a fan of the over-the-top frilliness 

An adorable Mini Boden applique shirt.

A Mini Boden pointelle t-shirt.  Both Mini Boden shirts are size 9-10, which is a long way off, but they are really nice looking so I felt they would be worth it.

Gap dress 3.99
Papo d'Anjo top 3.99
Naartjie sundress 2.99
Pink Applique Mini Boden top 2.99
Pink Pointelle Mini Boden top 2.99

And if I had waited to buy these until Goodwill's Toddler Thursday, all this would have been 50% off, but alas, I had to scoop them up while I had the chance.  

Total cost: 16.95
Total time in store: 20 minutes (sometimes it doesn't take long)